Showing posts with label success of life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label success of life. Show all posts

Wednesday 1 January 2014

दाइजोमा केटीका बाउले मागे १० लाख फेसबुक लाइक

विवाहमा केटा पक्षले दाइजोका रुपमा लाखौ रुपैयाँ, मोटर, बंगला मागेको र केटी पक्षले केटा जागिरे हुनु पर्ने जस्ता माग राखेको त सुन्दै आएको हो । तर, यमनमा एक बाबुले आफ्नो छोरीसँग विवाहका लागि फेसबुक लाइक मागेका छन् । त्यो पनि चानचुन हैन, १० लाखको संख्यामा ।

युवतीका बाबुले १० लाख फेसबुक लाइक जुटाउनेलाई छोरी दिने घोषणा गरेका छन् । यमन पारम्परिक समाज भएको देश हो । यो शर्तले त्यहाँका मानिस छक्क परेका छन् ।
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युवतीकी बाबु सलेम अयाश एक साहित्यकार हुन् । ताइज शहरमा बस्ने सलेमले हुनेवाला ज्वाईँले १० लाख फेसबुक लाइक जुटाउनु पर्ने शर्त राखेका हुन् । त्यो पनि आफ्नो वा हुनेवाला श्रीमतीको नाममा नभई केटीको बाबु सलेम अयाशको फेसबुक पेजमा ।

यमनमा ढाई करोड इन्टरनेट उपभोक्ता भएको अनुमान छ । यस्तोमा १० लाख फेसबुक लाइक जुटाउन त्यति सजिलो छैन । यमनको अल-अथ्याम अखबारका पत्रकार बशराहीलले यस्तो सर्त पहिलोपटक सुनेको बताए । इन्टरनेटमा थुप्रै ब्लगरहरुले सलेमको पेज लाइक गर्न अपील समेत गरेका छन् । सलेम अयाशको फेसबुक पेज बनेको केही दिनमा नै ३० हजारभन्दा बढी लाइक जुटिसकेको छ ।

फेसबुक लाइक मागेकोबारे सोधिएको प्रश्नमा सलेमले भनेका छन्-’यमनमा दाइजोको रुपमा रकम दिने हैसियत कसैसँग छैन ।’ उनले आफ्नो हुनेवाला ज्वाईँले फेसबुक लाइक जुटाउने प्रयास गरेको हेर्न चाहेको तर, यसमा अड्डी नलिने बताएका छन् । उनले भनेका छन्-’यदि मैले उनले कडा मेहनत गरेको पाएँ भने बैबाहिक जीन्दगी खुसी देख्न म आफ्नो अडानमा लचिलो हुन तयार छु ।’

पत्रकार बशराहीलका अनुसार यमनका नौजवानहरु विवाहका लागि केटी पक्षलाई रकम दिन सक्ने अवस्थामा छैनन् । जसका कारण धेरैको विवाह हुन सकेको छैन । त्यहाँको परम्परा अनुसार केटीको बाबुले दाइजोको रुपमा केटा पक्षले दिनु पर्ने रकम तय गर्नेछन् । विवाहमा धेरै धनराशी खर्च गर्नु पर्ने भएपछि पछिल्लो दिनमा सामूहिक विवाहको प्रचलन समेत सुरु भएको छ ।

Tuesday 26 November 2013

Babies learn first lullabies in the womb

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An infant can recognise a lullaby heard in the womb for several months after birth, potentially supporting later speech development, a new study has found.

The study by the University of Helsinki focused on 24 women during the final trimester of their pregnancies.

Half of the women played the melody of ‘Twinkle Twinkle Little Star’ to their foetuses five days a week for the final stages of their pregnancies.

The brains of the babies who heard the melody in utero reacted more strongly to the familiar melody both immediately and four months after birth when compared with the control group.

These results show that foetuses can recognise and remember sounds from the outside world.

This is significant for the early rehabilitation, since rehabilitation aims at long-term changes in the brain.

“Even though our earlier research indicated that foetuses could learn minor details of speech, we did not know how long they could retain the information. These results show that babies are capable of learning at a very young age, and that the effects of the learning remain apparent in the brain for a long time,” said researcher Eino Partanen.

“This is the first study to track how long foetal memories remain in the brain. The results are significant, as studying the responses in the brain let us focus on the foundations of foetal memory. The early mechanisms of memory are currently unknown,” said Dr Minna Huotilainen, principal investigator.

The researchers believe that song and speech are most beneficial for the foetus in terms of speech development.

According to the current understanding, the processing of singing and speech in the babies brains are partly based on shared mechanisms, and so hearing a song can support a baby’s speech development.

However, little is known about the possible detrimental effects that noise in the workplace can cause to a foetus during the final trimester.

Thursday 24 October 2013

How to Be Successful in Life

Regardless of how old you are, where you live, or what your career goals are, everybody's ultimate goal in life is to be happy and successful. Read this article to learn how to achieve success in both your external life (i.e. your circumstances) and internal life (i.e. emotional well being).

Method 1 : Achieve External Success


     Identify your passions. Before you can achieve success, you will have to define what success means to you. While it may take years to realize what you want to do with your life, identifying your passions, interests, and values will help you set goals and give your life a sense of meaning. Ask yourself the following questions:
        What do you want your legacy to be?
        How would you like to be remembered by others?
        How do you want to make your community a better place?
        What are your subjects of interest?

    2     Make a list of your goals, and what you might do to    achieve  them. 

Be sure to address both short-term and long-term goals; try to think beyond financial/career goals.
        Consider which subjects you enjoyed studying in school, and why. This can help give you an idea of what you may be best at or more interested in.

    3     Live purposefully. 

In order to achieve your dreams and be the person you want to be. You will have to start paying attention to your actions. Ask yourself, is what I'm doing going to lead me to where I want to be in life?
        If you find yourself constantly bored, daydreaming about the future or past or counting down the minutes until the day ends, it is probably because you feel disconnected from what you're doing. Consider changing careers or majors to a field that you care about but remember that it could mean changes you are not thinking of. Does that job pay enough to support yourself? Is it something you might get bored of eventually? Do I really want to commit to that job?
        Cherish your time. Try to spend your free time doing things that you enjoy doing, rather than wasting time. For example, rather than spending your weekends watching television, spend them partaking in your hobbies or spending time with loved ones.
        Remember that the concept of "wasted time" is relative. Not everything you do has to be productive in the conventional sense, but it should be engaging and enjoyable.

    4     Be educated. 

Education gives you the knowledge, skills, and credibility to achieve your maximum potential. In terms of financial success, statistics have shown that the more education you have (i.e. the higher degree you achieve), the more money you are likely to make.
        In 2011, the median weekly earnings for high school graduates was $638 while those with bachelor's degrees made $1053. That same year, those with masters or doctoral degrees made $1263 and $1551.
        Not all education has to be formal. Apprenticeships and long-term training programs are also positively correlated with higher incomes.

    5    Manage your finances. 

Learning how to manage your money will help ensure your financial stability over time, regardless of your income.
        Keep track of your expenses. Review your bank statements often and notice where you spend your money. If you do your banking online, be sure to keep personal records as well. This will help you prevent over-spending and ensure that your bank statements are correct.
        Understand your income. When calculating your income, be sure to take into account the federal, state, and social security taxes that will be deducted from your gross pay. The resulting number is your net pay, which is what you end up taking home with you.
        Prioritize spending. Your first priority should be spending money on basic necessities like food, shelter, and clothing. Don't spend money on luxuries like expensive clothes, cars, or vacations until you have first satisfied your basic necessities. Be honest with yourself and differentiate between your basic needs and your luxuries.
        Save money. Every month, you should deposit some of your money into a savings account. Consider asking your employer to directly deposit a portion of your income into your savings account.

    6     Manage your time. 

Putting off important tasks until the last minute can cause you unnecessary stress, and increases the likelihood of errors. Manage your time so that you have enough time to complete a task effectively.
        Use a paper or electronic planner to help keep you organized throughout the day, week, and month.
        Make a list of all the things you need to do in a given day, and check off each task as you complete it. This will help you stay organized and motivated.

EditMethod 2 : Achieve Internal Success


    1    Enjoy the present moment. 

If you are constantly dwelling on the past or daydreaming about the future, you are missing out on the present moment. Remember that the past and the future are simply illusions, and that real life takes place here and now.
        Start paying attention to negative thoughts so that you can learn to silence them and enjoy the present moment. If a negative thought arises in your head, then acknowledge it, label it a negative thought, and then let it fade away.
        Get in the habit of paying attention to the small details around you. Appreciate the feeling of the sun on your skin, the sensation of your feet walking on the ground, or the artwork in the restaurant you are eating in. Noticing things like these will help you silence a rambling mind and appreciate every moment.

    2     Don't compare your own life to other peoples' lives. 

Unfortunately, many people measure their own success by comparing it to the success of those around them. If you want to feel accomplished and happy, you will have to stop comparing your life to other peoples' lives.
        Many people have the tendency to compare the low points of their own lives with the high points of other peoples' lives. Remember that no matter how perfect somebody's life may seem, behind closed doors everybody deals with tragedy, insecurity, and other difficulties.
        Rather than comparing yourself with people who are "better off" than you, think about all of the people who are homeless, chronically ill, or living in poverty. This will help you appreciate what you have rather than feeling sorry for yourself.

    3    Count your blessings. 

No matter how much you achieve in life, you will always feel unhappy if you constantly focus on what you don't have. Instead, devote time every day to appreciating the things you do have. Think beyond material items; appreciate your loved ones, and remember happy memories.

EditTips :    Having positive role models in your life can help keep you motivated and lead you in the right direction. Your role model may or may not be somebody you know personally. Learn about your role model's life story and try to adopt his or her work ethic.

  

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